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Understanding Situational Dementia Behavior in Seniors


August 28, 2018 in: Top Tips on What Do with Behavior Issues from Dementia,

Dementia comes with numerous challenges. It can be especially difficult if it's a loved one who becomes difficult to communicate with. It can be frustrating for you, the care taker and the ones suffering from it.

Nevertheless, it is important to know the different scenarios that can play out in daily care and how you should deal with those situations if your loved one is suffering from dementia. Your loved one with dementia isn’t acting out on purpose. The changes in their brain account for the changes in their behavior.

Here are some of the situations where you need to effectively respond:

1.  Where Am I? What Time is it?

You may face situations where your parent is anxious and will ask such questions of you. They'll say that they want to go home, ask why they are at the house, or they may even fail to recognize it altogether.

Just remember that the reason for this confusion and loss of memory is deteriorating cognitive ability. Your parent may want more control over the situation. By saying these statements they're attempting to take back that control.

One way you deal with this is to politely remind them with photos and videos of where they are. Maybe the pictures and videos will help them remember where they are.

Take them towards a comfort and safety zone. Don't go into long explanations. That might get the wrong responses from them, making the situation even worse. You do not want that to happen.

2. Repetition and Accusation

If your parent says someone stole their possessions, has problems doing basic math, keeps collecting things or repeats things after the conversation has moved on, this is another situation where you need to practice patience. Deteriorating brain cells may be the cause of these repetitive behaviors and baseless accusations.

Sometimes it's obvious and sometimes it's not. Stockpiling and accusations may be obvious signs. But having trouble with simple calculations without realizing it is not so obvious, especially for the senior.

You have to be very diplomatic about it. If they're having troubles with their taxes, you might mention slight overdrafts in their bill, and ask if the bank was making a mistake. If they voluntarily own up, encourage them by telling them that it’s alright, and oblige if they ask for your help. Questioning them out right would make matters way worse, so avoid that.

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Top Tips on What Do with Behavior Issues from Dementia


July 12, 2017 in: Top Tips on What Do with Behavior Issues from Dementia,

Dementia isn’t just a terrible disease for people who suffer from it, but it can be equally challenging for people who have to handle the patients. Patients usually lose their cognition and ability to act appropriately in public which means, even minor statements can cause aggravated and even aggressive behavior.

How can you help?

According to experts from assisted living centers like The Palazzo and The Montecito in Santa Fe, who are actually accustomed to dealing with some patients with dementia, aggressive behavior results from them not being able to communicate their needs properly. When caring for a dementia patient, you’ll understand how it’s not really as easy as it might seem. Here are a few tips you can follow to deal with them:

  • Triggers: Anything can trigger patients with dementia and usually you don’t notice it until the behavioral changes occur. Remember to keep track of these changes and see what triggers the change. You’ll have to take a step back and walk through the moments before the incident.
  • Journals: Keep a journal tracking all the factors which are shown to trigger aggressive behaviors and make sure you’re more careful around the patient next time.
  • Suspicions: Paranoia and suspicions are actually a result of memory loss and are very common behaviors for people suffering from dementia. Just try not to get offended by it and counteract with simple solutions and remember not to give detailed explanations since this could only aggravate the behavior. Another way you can help is to keep backup items ready in case they have an episode again.          
  • Confusion: Dementia patients are often confused about locations, actions, people, time etc. and this can be quite frustrating for the caregivers. Don’t worry, try to keep your cool and keep a calm demeanor to handle their confusions. Try not to give complicated answers or let your frustration be known, just be as straightforward and as polite as you can be.
  • Wandering: This is the most dangerous behavior dementia patients usually have. It can either be goal oriented or non-goal oriented but in any case, you can reduce the frequency by redirecting them to other activities. Even certain changes in the environment can reduce wanderings by coming across as barriers to the patient.
  • Anger: This aggressive behavior can be quite hurtful and challenging for the caregiver. Often dementia patients lash out in anger and start yelling and screaming. Remember, you need to be the calm one between the two and know what triggers the anger.

These tips may not seem like much but they are actually known to work quite a lot. You can help your loved one by assisting them overcome the problem they’re dealing with or seeking professional advice for. Remember, nothing they do is intentional and it affects them just as much as you so it’s crucial you keep a check on how you behave with them as well.  Journals help a lot in keeping track of their triggers and behaviors so the next time they lash out, you are aware of the cause.

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